It really is, and it's a lot harder when there's just one of you. The first time with my wife seemed a lot easier then after she died and I had to start all over again.

I'm sure my daughter would say I tend to steer towards overprotectivness, which I confess I tend to do. But...

[Well Silent Hill...he shrugs, not wanting to mention his very good reasons to just a person he only knows somewhat.]

I think writing true crime for a living when I was younger didn't help things much either.

You're looking after Shaun here right?